(joining the discussion): My Patron Profile

From reading others’ recent blog entries, mainly Missy Mariposa’s and Alexa’s(of TheRealPrincessDiaries) , it looks like there’s a little informal discussion going on about patron profiles… so here’s my piece, for the fluff it’s worth.

Since the shortest time with me (for new friends) is a multi-hour evening affair involving good food, I think that my experiences are different. I’ve only had any presence as a Lady at all for about a month (edging into this, I was casually utr, having a few sugardaddys).

Demographically- surprisingly alot of locals in St. Louis! I was thinking I would be getting more of a lonely-traveling-businessman type. Very well off, so far (St. Louis cost of living is approximately half that of San Francisco or NYC, so what I charge is not as inexpensive as it would seem in those places!). I’ve not had enough experiences to say “more of this profession and less of this”. Ditto for the age range – pretty all over, but heavily leaning towards the 45+ and single.

What happens behind closed doors is nobody’s business, but the trend is that romantic things like lingerie and a non-goal oriented, romantic, approach are mutually and consummately appreciated.

Perhaps, unlike many other ladies, I’m quite comfortable with attachment, as long as possessiveness is not an issue. I think that, especially starting off with dinner, some amount of mutual bonding is bound to occur. Starting off with eye contact over food, exchanging anecdotes about life, and ending with cuddling. It makes the experience more intense for me.

So far, as I get more established, it appears as if I will have a rather cozy group of repeat-patrons, spiced up with an occasional new friend. I offer longer engagements, but haven’t set specific compensation requests because of the many variations. My general approach has been “make me an offer which won’t be insulting”, and I’ve been very pleased. I have a few weekend trips planned and wish I could take off more during the week (have had to say “no” to flying charter due to my day-job).

I limit my advertising (if profiles on Escorts.com and Preferred411 count as ads – otherwise I have none). I’ve decided to allow reviews for the credibility factor and that (so far) it’s been very effective indirect marketing. I’ve been playing with the idea of purchasing google adwords, and this site is a practice in search-engine marketing. I want to be found if you’re specifically looking for a St. Louis dinner companion . I’d love to exchange links with other ladies.

Is there anything touched on in the other blogs that I’m missing in adding my experiences to?

I’m curious to read and hear the experiences of other companions….