RachaelBenedict.com - Lady of Pleasure in St. Louis MO » Journal

More silly online quizzes…

Rachael — Mon, 26 Jul 2010 18:11:26 +0000

I go thru phases with so-called “quizzes”… and with this heat wave here in St. Louis, I’ve been spending a little more time inside at my computer…

Here are a few I’ve recently taken:

Which Tarot Card are You?

You Scored as II – The High PriestessThe High Priestess is a card of intuition, instinct and

A few of my simply favorite things…

Rachael — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 21:48:08 +0000

I love sensations, textures, and atmospheres… things that are pleasing to the eye, and to the touch. Anyone who has ever met me, knows that I’m highly visual, and like keeping atleast a dim light on.

Here is a partial list of my favorites:

The sensations of silk, fur, and other soft sensations against my skin… I

New, Very Limited, Lunch Date

Rachael — Mon, 19 Jul 2010 23:34:39 +0000

I announced my new, very limited, lunch date in my newsletter earlier this week. Dates beginning after 2pm still have my “dinner date minimal”… As I become a more experienced Companion, obviously, one package doesn’t fit all desires, so I modified and pretty much completely overhauled the “Meet Me” page. I also hope that it

Why the greeting card?

Rachael — Mon, 12 Jul 2010 03:54:23 +0000

There was an interesting thread on Eccie started, about the “tradition” of the “plain white envelope (and my response: http://www.eccie.net/showthread.php?p=366121#post366121 )

I seldom explain WHY I do things related to this world, but I really think that doing so will help you, the reader, understand and further respect my reasoning for taking care of financials in a

My Romantic Retreat is Ready

Rachael — Wed, 07 Jul 2010 14:46:52 +0000

I hope that your July 4th was full of fireworks

I am finished with getting my exclusive Romantic Retreat ready, right on time!

If you select and qualify for my Romantic Retreat, we’ll retire after getting to know eachother over fine food…. and if you’re used to the 5 star, and all the little details

Reviews and TheEroticReview.com

Rachael — Tue, 29 Jun 2010 00:43:08 +0000

If you’ve written me a review on TheEroticReview.com, and it’s not been posted, or if it’s been changed, please let me know.

I’ve taken escort review boards such as TheEroticReview.com with a grain of salt, and beyond a few idealistic thoughts, believe pragmatically escort reviews (including reviews of myself) are a necessity in this day and

How To Research and Find a Compatible Companion

Rachael — Fri, 18 Jun 2010 21:43:40 +0000

Much has been written on how to use escort services, escort etiquette, seeing an escort for the first time, and so on…

But how do you find the best escort for you? This is assuming that your needs are more than one dimensional and that you’re seeking someone you can have a great connection with on top

June Newsletter

Rachael — Thu, 03 Jun 2010 17:53:50 +0000

Below is the newsletter that I recently sent out. Those subscribed to my newsletter get “first notice” as to new pictures, updates, and news (Subscribe on my newsletter page: http://rachaelbenedict.com/files/links/newsletter/ ) :

Happy June! I know that this is a few days early, but looks like I have a busy week and, if you know me, I’d

Fake Temp Agency & Professional Networking Ideas Outlined

Rachael — Sun, 23 May 2010 05:27:00 +0000

The problems:

Apartment and car hunting as an escort or other adult service provider (ASP) can be a nightmare due to employment and income verification Many professionals are “ASP friendly” but have no way to market themselves as such- these may or may not be hobbyists (ie, female website designers, openminded men, etc) ASPs have no venue to

Reposting my mind-map of “the pleasure disciplines”

Rachael — Sun, 23 May 2010 04:44:20 +0000

I got so much feedback on this, and I keep referring to it. This is basically how I envision the “adult industry” or “pleasure industry”. I am sure there is more to add, but it’s basically how I perceive things and where they fit.

Click this image to enlarge full size.

Or find in “raw”

My May Newsletter

Rachael — Mon, 03 May 2010 15:02:54 +0000

If you haven’t already, sign up for my newsletter to receive my monthly updates directly via email. Below is the May newsletter I sent out yesterday:

Happy May!

Back by popular demand, 12 hour sleepovers! Infact, I’ve re-worded and clarified quite a bit on all of the overnights, so be sure to check my overnights page.

Screening and the Pizza Delivery Boy

Rachael — Fri, 30 Apr 2010 20:22:37 +0000

I was recently discussing screening with another companion.

Fact is, you give the pizza delivery guy more information than you give any escort. Sure, you may give a Lady your employer or landline, but you also give the pizza delivery your home address, and usually your credit card number. The pizza delivery person also often sees

With encouragement, I posted about that “new link” in my signature…

Rachael — Wed, 28 Apr 2010 06:13:03 +0000

… on the local message board. I kept getting encouraged to “throw it out there” and promote it a little I got on a bit of a roll, so rather than repeat myself, I’ve reposted what I wrote there to this blog. I think that it further explains my grass-roots, simple, idea…

Here is

Obviously not a graphics girl, but I think I’m getting a little better…

Rachael — Sun, 25 Apr 2010 19:41:57 +0000

Just made a few new banners this morning, in a rather successful effort to avoid sorting laundry and doing other boring chores. It’s rainy and cold and dreary here in St. Louis on this Sunday, and I just lost motivation to do much of anything else.

Obviously, I’m not a graphics specialist, but I think (hope)

The Escaped Monkey in the Back of a Car

Rachael — Sun, 18 Apr 2010 23:34:32 +0000

I was on my way somewhere out here in St. Louis, and found myself behind a white car with a cage/crate in the backseat… nothing too unusual… until the monkey climbed out of the cage and into the back-dash and calmly regarded my car for a moment. At a stoplight, I pulled out my camera

Newsletter – sharing an altruistic idea, and a few (more) changes

Rachael — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 14:42:49 +0000

I couldn’t hold it in any longer… I am inspired. I just sent this newsletter out announcing what I feel are some pretty cool ideas and important changes:

I tried to sit on my hands and not send another newsletter for 2 more weeks… but I couldn’t! Just too many cool things going on. First of all, I

Changes to travel page and overnights…

Rachael — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 00:50:27 +0000

The rates for my travel companionship seemed mathematically inconsistent to me, so I “fixed” them I’ve decided to go with my normal day of 2000, plus add a travel allowance to cover plane fare, pet boarding, and parking. This way, you can fly me in on shorter notice. Also, flights to Chicago and certain other

ALL new pictures!

Rachael — Mon, 05 Apr 2010 16:54:29 +0000

Spring has Sprung and I’ve made some more fun changes!

I did a complete image update, with the pictures shot by the PlayBoy-credited photographer. This past month I’ve been SO excited about planning this shoot

I prepared by using a gift certificate and going to the spa for a day so that

Getting a makeup artist even though I block my face :P

Rachael — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 18:33:50 +0000

I’ve decided to spend extra and get a makeup artist for my upcoming April shoot with the published photographer (whose credits include PlayBoy). Even if you won’t see my face, I will It’s such a total splurge that, for a little bit extra, may as well employ someone who makes her living making

My Musical Inclinations… don’t ask me to sing!

Rachael — Tue, 02 Mar 2010 20:29:16 +0000

I’ve decided to relegate my amateur piano playing abilities to this realm.

Like dancing in my panties to early Beatles, it’s a secretive habit that no one in my mainstream life really knows about. I don’t like playing for others, so I never see the need to point out that I know how to use that

Ponderings on Social Media and Escorting in St. Louis

Rachael — Sat, 20 Feb 2010 00:54:06 +0000

I recently posted on the local message board asking “who has social media under their escorting or hobby identities”? It was my only other post besides my first one that introduced myself to the community.

Essentially, so far, it looks as if very few in St. Louis are into social media. I think there are concerns

Happy Valentines Day!

Rachael — Sun, 14 Feb 2010 06:01:16 +0000

Happy Valentine’s Day!

I hope that everyone reading this is having a sensual one

For my Valentine’s (and belated Christmas, and birthday, and personal celebration) gift to myself, I’ve firmed up plans to shoot new pictures for this site with a widely published photographer whose clients have included PlayBoy… Missouri continues to surprise and impress

Posted a new ad

Rachael — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 16:22:09 +0000

I was inspired by some witty ads for other classy ladies in bigger cities. Advertising can be a creative outlet. If it’s not apparent, writing is one of my many passions.

Below is what I posted this morning:

Experience a Mistress and Escape for Romance … For when you crave for more than just an hour of hustle

My results from an Enneagram Personality Test

Rachael — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 23:25:23 +0000

I sometimes take personality tests that I find while procrastinating doing things I know I “should” be doing. Most of them hold about as much deep and revealing truth as the statement “you eat bread and a wonderful person” (chances are I eat bread and feel flattered by the last part of that sentence, so

Reasons to indulge in professional companionship

Rachael — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 20:06:15 +0000

Notice that Ashley Dupre hasn’t spilled any details or dropped names? I’m sure that Spitzer wasn’t the only high profile gent she kept company. On the other side, Tiger Woods’s former lovers are spilling all kinds of salacious personal minutiae.

Reasons why (especially) high profile men, like Tiger Woods should indulge in the company of professional escorts/companions:

Escorts have financial

I took a few of those silly personality tests

Rachael — Fri, 27 Nov 2009 02:58:09 +0000

I got really bored after dinner and surfed onto a site that looked like it had been made by a 14 year old or search engine optimization for google-ads specialist (very hard to tell anymore)… This ad-filled and carefully keyworded site happened to be full of inane quizzes that compelled me to take them thru

We’ll pretend like we haven’t seen eachother in a week…

Rachael — Thu, 19 Nov 2009 03:02:44 +0000

One of my favorite dinner date fantasies to play out, is that you’re my boyfriend I haven’t seen in a week or two. You’ve been on a business trip, and so much catching up to do!

We go out to a nice place, if only to give me a chance to be the hottest looking woman

Dinner Escorting and Dinner Dates

Rachael — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 16:16:51 +0000

Romantic dinner dates… are delicious decadences to be desired. Consider me your dinner escort, and personal Lady of Pleasure (after 5pm).

From traveling extensively, I know that it is no fun to have dinner alone in a strange city. From dating and even being in a few normal relationships, I understand the loneliness of longing to enjoy the

The sensuous seduction of food

Rachael — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 06:49:43 +0000

I love multi-layered food. Slowly, taking a bite, and dissecting the flavors in my mouth. Is it anise or allspice? Ginger or cinnamon? Olive oil or almond oil?

I eat very slowly. I like to enjoy every bite and make it last.

I like to describe wine wine as if I was walking thru a garden. “Dry”

(joining the discussion): My Patron Profile

Rachael — Sun, 01 Nov 2009 15:44:58 +0000

From reading others’ recent blog entries, mainly Missy Mariposa’s and Alexa’s(of TheRealPrincessDiaries) , it looks like there’s a little informal discussion going on about patron profiles… so here’s my piece, for the fluff it’s worth.

Since the shortest time with me (for new friends) is a multi-hour evening affair involving good food, I think that my

Saint Louis Escort Service

Rachael — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 19:26:59 +0000

The best Saint Louis escort service!

Rachael Benedict is a VIP companion, dinner date escort, and sexy St. Louis escort who loves sensuality, stockings, and generous men.

Looking for a St. Louis date? Look no further to find the best escort service in Missouri.

Rachael Benedict is classy blonde escort and local Saint Louis adult service provider. She is

Escort Authenticity

Rachael — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 05:13:41 +0000

I’ve been fascinated with the idea of bounded authenticity, ever since reading Chevalier’s blog post about it.

It’s a great term, and very descriptive!

… but doesn’t it describe all relationships?

With my best friend, I am mostly authentic…. BUT… Even before I got this site up, she didn’t fully know my unconventional relationships when not in monogamy

Dinner Date Specialist and Lady of Pleasure

Rachael — Thu, 15 Oct 2009 01:07:02 +0000

Are you tired of lonely nights alone? Is your next business trip in St. Louis?Do you just need a sensual escape?

I’m available to be seduced exclusively over dinner at decadent dining places, after which we’ll retire privately to your place for more intimate conversations.

Interested? Let’s connect!

Dinner Companion Escort Missouri

Rachael — Sun, 11 Oct 2009 02:56:26 +0000

Are you looking for a fun, sexy, companion to go to dinner with in St. Louis Missouri?

You should consider me

I’m personable, sweet, and usually know which fork to use. I love exploring fine dining in Saint Louis, and want to literally eat my way around this amazing city!

We won’t lack for conversation, and

Brands I love

Rachael — Sat, 10 Oct 2009 05:23:47 +0000

Purely at a consumerist level…I love…

BeBe, for something edgy and a little slutty. Perfect for nightclubs. Calvin Klein, for something classy. The little black dress. Chanel, for anytime. Probably my favorite high-end brand, because it’s timeless.

With lingerie, my tastes have been called eclectic:

Secrets In Lace – one of the most established retro-vintage style lingerie companies… one of