Etiquette

Etiquette for having the best experience possible Discretion and safety are very important to both of us!

On our first meeting, we will meet in a public place. If you are not comfortable with this, please do not contact me!

You will give me a greeting card or book with my cash gift slipped inside it within the first 15 minutes of the public part of our date. Regardless if we’ve previously met or not, this is non-negotiable.

I’ll of course be genuinely thankful for your gift and things will proceed much more comfortably… I realize that your money is valuable, and I do my best to make you feel most appreciated for your generosity.

You can be assured that we have the same priorities: compatibility, confidentiality, safety, and discretion. When contacting me, being forthcoming about your identity will go a long way towards making me feel comfortable with you, as will a thoughtful introduction email. Tell me a little something about your hobbies, interests, and passions in life.

I will give you my personal phone number before we meet, and I will expect yours before our time together is firmly reserved.

All details (time, restaurant we’re meeting at, hotel, etcetera) must be confirmed no later than 48 hours prior to the start of our affair.

We will never discuss romance and finance in the same conversation. Emails deemed obscene, explicit, or uninformative will be ignored.

Please note that I will assume the date canceled on short notice if you do not touch base with me on the day of our meeting (first thing in the morning, or before 12 noon, is ideal). Unless it is an overnight, our date will end by midnight. This is so that I can keep my fairly early morning schedule. Please keep this in mind when contacting me about meeting and scheduling!

I’ve blocked off our time together, and have a life outside of this world which might prevent me from being able to stay drastically later than the time I’ve set aside for us. Please let me know in advance if you’re considering extending our time together so I can make sure my schedule is cleared or flexible.

I totally understand flight delays, but please give me the courtesy of keeping me informed of such or any other travel tribulations. I tend to run a few minutes early. Regardless of how tardy you are, we will always meet initially in a public place.

I love sharing a glass or two of wine over dinner; however, if you drink excessively during our time together or appear under the influence when I arrive, I will feel uncomfortable and un-safe, resulting in either not accompanying you in private, or in terminating our date completely. I define excessive drinking as if you can’t drive a car, then you can’t drive me ;-) Please drink responsibly.

The gifts contributed have been and always will be expressly for my time and nothing more.

I am incredibly affectionate, reciprocative, sensual, libertine, and hedonistic… if you treat me right.

Cancellations:

I don’t entertain many gentlemen, and I also may be making excuses in my mainstream life to arrange our time together. I also genuinely anticipate our time together. Because of this, your cancellation hugely disappoints me and results in me being without a companion during our planned time together. Please give me as much forewarning as possible regarding any chance of cancellation or change in meeting time (I know flights get laid over, issues arise). The more notice you give me, the more likely it will be that I can accommodate you.

If you cancel with less than 48 hours’ notice, please note the following: I will ask for a 20% cancellation fee for our missed date. If you would like to reschedule, I will ask for an additional 20% deposit to reserve our future date (this will apply to our rescheduled time).

If, with notice, you cancel on me twice, I will require a 20% deposit towards our date before we start to plan time together. Your deposit to reschedule after canceling on me,  assures me that you are sincere in wanting to get together.

The St. Louis network of professional Companions is small, and I share information on short-notice cancellations, time wasters, and bad clients with others.

I always give preference to gentlemen I know are dependable.

I almost never cancel with short notice, and if that is the case, I will make every effort to make it up to you.

A few miscellaneous notes of interest:

  • I really appreciate gentlemen, chivalry, and having doors opened for me.
  • Seeing you being nice to the waitress turns me on.
  • Water or Perrier on the nightstand is a thoughtful touch.
  • I like to maintain a low profile, with minimal advertising and little message board participation. Personal referrals are always welcomed and encouraged. Reviews are thoughtfully kind, but please let me know if you intend on writing one as each experience is unique, and people sometimes make the wrong assumptions based upon what personally transpired between you and I.